今天要回乡过年,

心里总是带着一点的喜悦又掺杂了很多的忧心,

喜悦因为要和家人团聚过年了;

忧心因为Final Project的进展不理想;

但我相信主能带领我去完成,

主很常让不可能变成有可能,

学习把重担交托于主.

Let Care your's Tongue

Our Tongue can bless, Our tongue can curse;

"If anyone considers himself religious and yet does not keep a tight rein on his tongue, he deceives himself and his religion is worthless." Jame1:26

I always drop in to the trap by didn't control my tongue. i didn't remember how many peoples hurt grievoulsy because of my tongue.

"The tongue has the power of life and death,and those who love it will eat its fruits.". proverb18:21

Every time, i once realized that my words hurt someone eventhough it just was a joke. i felt regret and scored myself. "Why!why!why give ways to satan. Don't you forget what the bible teached". Uncontrolled word once spoken cannot be taken back. It take long time to forgot and forgive.It will cause pain and feelings of rejection to others. They give rise to insecurity. Sorry, my friend who has been hurted by me

"he who guards his mouth and his tongue keep himself from calamity."Proverb21:23

All of us have to exercise self-control. But it is not an easy thing to control our tongue when we are provoked, boiled over with anger or have outburst of wrath. It is at such time that we have to learn to hold our tongue and to remain silent. If we can’t tame our tongue, we have to take a break or go for a walk to cool off. It is much easier to control the words before the blow-up than during the explosion.

"When words are many,sin is not absent, but he who holds his tongues is wise."Proverb10:19

Bible is clearly stated that if we cant tame our tongue, its better remain silent especially in the anger.Father Henri Nouwen said, “It is so important to choose our words wisely. When we are boiling with anger and eager to throw bitter words at our opponents, it is better to remain silent. Words spoken in rage will make reconciliation very hard. Choosing life and not death, blessings and not curses, often starts by choosing to remain silent or choosing carefully the words that open the way to healing.” (“Bread for the Journey,” Sept 5)

"Do not use harmful words, but only helpful words, the kind that build up and provide what is needed, so that what you say will do good to those who hear you.” (Ephesians 4:29 TEV)

We should be greatest ENCOURAGER. Encourage. Encourage. Encourage on every occasion. St Paul advises us not to speak harmful words but to use helpful words.

As Henri Nouwen said, “Words can bring consolation, comfort, encouragement, and hope. Words can take away fear, isolation, shame, and guilt. Words can reconcile, unite, forgive, and heal. Words can bring peace and joy, inner freedom and deep gratitude. Words, in short, can carry love on their wings. A word of love can be one of the greatest acts of love.” (“Bread for the Journey,” June 22)

When we choose to speak words of care, words of encouragement, words of praise, words of love, words of admiration, positive words---they uplift and give meaning to our lives.

Pls Remember In Your Whole Life. Jacob

kuikapei记

1月10日,我们到了auntie家帮忙做"kuikapei",

第一次做,有不一样的感觉,

刚开始时,因为生手的关系,很多都被烤焦了,

之后就越来越上手,

而且大家都变成高手了.

原来,做kuikapei 不难,

但是很花时间,我们做了一整天才装了几桶的盒子.

kuikapei的调配方有鸡蛋20粒,粘米粉,椰浆,少水,和糖.

Auntie 也请了我们吃芋头饭,到现在还回味无穷..."我还要antie...."

虽然那一整天很累,但是我觉得很有意义,

我更加的认识她们一家人,

从他们一家人看到神的祝福...

他们一家人都彼此的相爱,彼此爱主...

我们聆听了antie 说他们如何的疼爱自己的子女.

他们的子女也真的很听话,很爱他们的父母...

因此才明白,要建立一个蒙福和甜蜜的家庭,

要学习先爱主,把自己的家庭交在主手中;

把家里的每一个成员带到主的面前.

人生的价值

人的一生都在忙忙碌碌...
为了什么而忙碌呢?
为了什么而奋斗呢?
从出生到幼稚园,
幼稚园到小学,
小学到中学,
中学到大学,
大学到工作,
工作到离世,
有的人为了"钱途"
但金钱让很多弟兄反目成仇
有的人为了"前途"
但前途让很多人对前面迷茫
有的人为了"爱情"
但爱情让很多人都堕入痛苦
有的人为了"地位"
但地位让很多人忘了自己
有的人为了"自由"
但自由让很多人放纵罪恶
有的人为了"生存"
但生存让很多人迷失道德本性
但真正的....
人生最终的价值,在于觉醒和思考的能力.
觉醒如何才能拥有"永恒的生命"
思考为什么要拥有"永恒的生命"
圣经说:"在世上所有的东西,将来无不毁去,
唯有神的话语永长存."
耶稣说:"我就是道路真理生命,
若不借着我,无人能通往永恒的生命".

无事不登上宝殿

人与人之间的的关系

很复杂

很奇妙

很不明白

是否人与他人来往都心存目的呢?

你是否也和我有一样的感觉?

当你想真心与他人交心做朋友,

找他出来喝茶,吃饭,交流...

他人就会暗心觉得 你无事不登上宝殿.

但是,又很矛盾...

当你有事没事的 就登上宝殿

他人就会觉得你很烦...

很想避开躲开你...

如何才能真正让人觉得你是真心的呢?

那就把你的"心"拨开来看....

所谓"路遥知马力,日久见人心"

当他人有需要时,你就登上宝殿;

当他人没需要时,你就谨记..."千万不要常常登上宝殿"